28 December 2009

On the Fourth Day of Christmas

I had a very nice Christmas celebration with the family. We went to Christmas Eve Mass at a full St. Gerard, then dad, mom and I came back to the house for some gumbo with Uncle Ricky and his three girls, Kaitlyn, Mary Grace and Ricky Jo. It was nice and low key, but I did miss the visit Santa made at Nanny and Uncle Be's. Hopefully next year I can be there.

Christmas morning we all went to Jacob and Charmin's for the day. Jacob and I constructed JP's new train table, and then JP played with it until he could barely stand up for being so tired. We opened gifts and played board games with Lisa and Brandon and even a couple of Lisa's friends. I fell asleep watching Star Trek, and considering how action-packed that movie is, I must have been really tired.

On the day after Christmas, the whole family went to the funeral of Freddie Housewright's mother. She lived a long, full life, but funerals are always sad. I've been to too many of them this year. It was great to see Uncle Freddie and Aunt Linda and Alison and Brian and their families. Saturday evening we had the Breaux Bridge Couvillions and the Atlanta Couvillions over to mom and dad's house. We all had a nice visit.

Sunday we lazed around and watched the Saints and Colts lose. Cara and I decided to go see Sherlock Holmes. It was definitely re-imagined, but it was very good.

Who knows what today will bring . . . .

23 December 2009

O Emmanuel

We have reached the final day of the the O Antiphons. Tomorrow is Christmas Eve, and we celebrate the arrival of our Savior. Today, for the last day of Advent, we cry out for his arrival one last time. The O Antiphon for December 23, in Latin:

O Emmanuel, Rex et legifer noster, exspectatio gentium, et Salvator earum: veni ad salvandum nos Domine Deus noster.

Before giving you the translation, I'll let you know why I have shared the Latin with you. The first letters of each of the titles of the Messiah, in reverse order, are E(mmanuel), R(ex), O(riens), C(lavis), R(adix), A(donai), and S(apientiae). In Latin, "Ero cras" translates to "I will be (here) tomorrow." A message within a message!

The translation for today's antiphon:

O Emmanuel, our King and lawgiver, the expected of the nations and their Savior; come to save us, O Lord our God.

As you may know, Emmanuel translates to "God with us." In that word, we express the true meaning of Christmas, and of our whole faith -- that God not only sent us His Son, but truly sent us Himself, to live among us and show us the way to salvation. Christ is with us! Alleluia! Alleluia!

My prayer for you today and for your celebration of Christmas is that you rejoice in the ways God is present in your life everyday. I hope you are surrounded by loved ones in your celebrations.

O come, o come, Emmanuel,
And ransom captive Israel,
That mourns in lonely exile here,
Until the Son of God appear.

"Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests." Merry Christmas!

22 December 2009

O Rex Gentium

Today it hit me. I have to finish up some projects at work, pack, clean up the house, and travel, all in the next 36 hours. There just doesn't seem like enough time to get it all done. I'm gonna have to take my own advice, I suppose, take a deep breath, and just get it done.

Here's the O Antiphon for December 22:

O Rex gentium, et desideratus earum, lapisque angularis, qui facis utraque unum: veni, et salva hominem, quem de limo formasti.

Translated:

O King of the gentiles and their desired One, the cornerstone that makes both one: come, and deliver man, whom you formed out of the dust of the earth.

Today we have another reference to Christ as the figure who will bring together the Jewish people and the gentiles. This time he comes as our king. As we know, this peace amongst men is an elusive thing in our world even today. But the God who created us sent Jesus Christ to unite each of us to all our brothers and sisters. This Advent season we are reminded of Christ's love for all men and women, and to look within ourselves to see how we can further the unity and love of all mankind.

My prayer for you (and especially for me on this one!) is that during this Christmas season we find a way to turn argument or disharmony into an opportunity to further the love and understanding of God, our Father and Christ, and Christ, our Redeemer.

The relevant verse of O Come O Come Emmanuel really brings this message home today:

O come, Desire of nations, bind,
In one the hearts of all mankind;
Bid Thou our sad divisions cease,
And be Thyself our King of peace.

21 December 2009

O Oriens

Happy Winter Solstice. I want to again thank you for the kind words you have sent in response to these e-mails. I didn't send Christmas cards -- I hope this is a suitable substitute.

Today is the shortest day of the year for those of us in the northern hemisphere. The O Antiphon for December 21 takes this natural phenomenon into account. In Latin first:

O Oriens, splendor lucis aeternae, et sol iustitiae: veni, et illumina sedentes in tenebris et umbra mortis.

Translated:

O dawn of the east, brightness of light eternal, and sun of justice: come, and enlighten those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death.

The word Oriens is also translated sometimes as Dayspring. How appropriate that on this shortest day of the year we are given a prayer calling on the sun that rises in the east to give us light! Light and fire are often used as symbols of Christ in liturgy. Today we are reminded that Christ is coming to illuminate our lives and save us from the darkness of sin and evil and death.

My prayer for you today is that you are able to be a reflection of the light of Christ for those around you who are sad or lonely or in need during this Christmas season, and in doing so fill the darkness in your own life.

Finally, today's verse from O Come O Come Emmanuel:

O come, Thou Dayspring, come and cheer,
Our spirits by Thine advent here;
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
And death's dark shadows put to flight.

20 December 2009

O Clavis David

Happy Sunday! Christmas is this week. I hope you take a deep breath today before the last few days of zaniness.

You may wonder why I have included the Latin. I promise there is a reason, but Uncle Ken appreciates the chance to brush up on the Latin he learned long, long ago. Here's the O Antiphon for December 20:

O clavis David, et sceptrum domus Israel: qui aperis, et nemo claudit; claudis, et nemo aperit: veni, et educ vinctum de domo carceris, sedentem in tenebris.

In English:

O key of David, and scepter of the house of Israel, who opens and no man shuts, who shuts and no man opens; come, and bring forth the captive from his prison, he who sits in darkness and in the shadow of death.

While it sounds a little grim, the message is important. Christ does something for us that nothing else can. No person, no activity, no amount of wealth, no material thing can fill the role in our life that Christ fills. But what amazing things He does for us! Christ comes to save us from death and eternal damnation.

While the holiday season brings great joy and happiness, it can also remind us of loved ones who aren't with us. My prayer for you today is that in the moments of sadness that inevitably come this Christmas, you are comforted by the promise of Christ's love and the eternal salvation He bought for us on the cross.

To close, the relevant verse from O Come O Come Emmanuel:

O come, thou Key of David, come,
And open wide our heavenly home;
Make safe the way that leads on high,
And close the path to misery.

19 December 2009

O Radix Jesse

I hope this last Saturday before Christmas is not too busy for you. I hope you get a chance to take a deep breath and relax. I hope you get to enjoy the first day of two weeks off from school if you have kids.

My friend Thalia tells me the word Antiphon is Greek, and she would know since she herself is a beautiful Greek woman and a dear friend from my college days at DePaul in Chicago.

On to today's O Antiphon! First, as usual, in Latin:

O Radix Jesse, qui stas in signum populorum, super quem continebunt reges os suum, quem gentes deprecabuntur: veni ad liberandum nos, iam noli tardare.

Radishes? What's that got to do with Advent? OK, here's the translation:

O Root of Jesse, that stands for an ensign of the people, before whom the kings keep silence and unto whom the Gentiles shall make supplication: come, to deliver us, and tarry not.

The thing I like about poetry and song is that it can say a lot in just a few words. This brief antiphon is packed with imagery of what the Christ child means to those of waiting for his birth at Christmas. Jesse, of course, is David's father, and the ancestor of Jesus. But Christ is also the root, the foundation of our lives, here on earth, today. Christ stands as a banner before all people. In His presence the most powerful rulers are silent. Even the enemies of God's people will recognize Christ and come to worship Him. So, HURRY UP AND GET HERE!

My prayer for you today is that, with all the hustle and bustle of the season, you are able to remain patient and during moments of waiting you are able to take the time to remember that Christ's birth is the reason for the season, and take joy in His coming.

To close, the corresponding verse from O Come O Come Emmanuel:

O come, O Rod of Jesse free,
Thine own from Satan's tyranny;
From depths of hell Thy people save,
And give them victory o'er the grave.

18 December 2009

O Adonai

I hope you enjoyed yesterday's e-mail. I appreciate the kind words of thanks from so many of you. Congratulations to Uncle Dayt and Aunt Carolyn up in Maryland for identifying O Come O Come Emmanuel as the hymn that is based on the O Antiphons. The corresponding verse for yesterday's Antiphon:

O come, O Wisdom from on high,
who orders all things mightily,
to us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go.

Now on to the O Antiphon for today, December 18. First in Latin:

O Adonai, et Dux domus Israel, qui Moysi in igne flammae rubi apparuisti, et ei in Sina legem dedisti: veni ad redimendum nos in brachio extento.

And now a translation:

O Lord and Ruler of the house of Israel, who appeared to Moses in the flame of the burning bush and gave him the law on Sinai; come, and redeem us with outstretched arms.

In reading about the O Antiphons, two things struck me about today's prayer. First, the same God who was so powerful that he revealed himself to Moses in fire and from the heavens on Mt. Sinai humbled himself to become a babe in a manger. Second, the choice of words at the end of the prayer is surely no accident, and "outstretched arms" foreshadows Christ's death on the cross to ensure our redemption.

And so, my prayer for us all today is that we may emulate God by practicing the virtue of humility , who sent us his one true Son to earth to redeem us from our sins.

In closing, the relevant verse from O Come O Come Emmanuel:

O come, O come, thou Lord of might,
Who to Thy tribes on Sinai's height
In ancient times didst give the law
In cloud and majesty, and awe.

17 December 2009

O Sapientia

I hope this Advent season finds you successfully preparing for Christmas. We all prepare for Christmas by shopping and partying and traveling and eating great food. I hope you have also had a chance during the Advent season to prepare in a spiritual sense as well for the joy of Christ's arrival on Christmas day. To that end, I offer you the O Antiphons, ancient prayers that are over 1300 years old. This series of seven prayers begins today and ends on December 23. Here is today's Antiphon:

O Sapientia, quae ex ore Altissimi prodidisti, attingens a fine usque ad finem, fortiter suaviter disponensque omnia: veni ad docendum nos viam prudentiae.

For those among you whose Latin is rusty, here's a translation:

O Wisdom, who came from the mouth of the Most High, reaching from end to end and ordering all things mightily and sweetly; come, and teach us the way of prudence.

You may recognize the gist of this prayer from a verse in a common Christmas hymn that is based on the O Antiphons. I'll tell you what it is tomorrow. Until then, my prayer for today is that during this season of preparation, in which we are all very busy running to and fro, you take an opportunity to reflect on the wisdom that Christ showed us during his time on earth.

27 August 2009

Wake Me Up When Semptember Comes

I really meant to post more often. I've gotten mad at friends who started a blog and then just petered out and stopped. Now I understand why this happens. I just couldn't figure out what to say or I got lazy or I had other things to do.

I haven't been up to much. I went down to Baton Rouge in early August and got sick while I was there. Work has been pretty dull. The weekends have increasingly become agony as I anxiously anticipate football season. I'll be on the road a lot in September, though, so the last couple of weekends in August I've been pretty chill.

That's all I've got for now. All is well. Work is picking back up at court approaches. Friends and family are thriving. JP is still the coolest dude, especially now that he knows who I am and calls me "Uh Ma."

13 July 2009

Independence Day Weekend with the Family


Sorry it's been so long. I spent the July 4th weekend at my uncle's camp on the Tickfaw River, and there was no internet access. I've been home for a week now, but kinda got used to not being on the computer.

I went down to Baton Rouge on the Tuesday before the Fourth. I met Cara, who was in from California, and we kidnapped the most adorable nephew ever [even though he really needs a haircut]. We went and visited my cousin Jill, and spent two hours watching JP and Kate play with each other. It was adorable, and would become a theme for the whole weekend. Tuesday night we took pictures with the entire family in Pride. Then, Cara and I went and met some of her high school classmates for dinner, which was cool since I went to school with most of them until fourth grade. I just sat there and drank. Cara got mad because when I got home I posted a message on facebook that I felt dumber because I had hung out with a bunch of RHS grads. Everybody else took it as a joke. Hopefully one day Cara's funny bone will fully develop and she will understand sarcasm (although this may be more properly characterized as sardonicism) as a means of making people laugh.

On Wednesday morning Cara and I got packed up and ready for the lake, including making trips to two different grocery stores in search of Mike's Hard Lemonade. We (she) ended up buying a lot of liquor, just to be on the safe side -- rum, vodka, margarita, beer -- and very little went to waste. Between Wednesday and Friday afternoon we were joined by Nanny and Uncle Be, Jill, Eric and Kate, Jacob, Charmin, Lisa, Brandon and JP, and Mom and Dad. We ate good food and drank and went fishing and boating and swimming and floating. Nobody was in a hurry to do anything, except Brandon, who wanted to pop fireworks as soon as he woke up on Saturday morning. He and Eric eventually go to put on quite a show, and Jacob showed his ass. Watching the toddlers (JP, 25 months and Kate, 19 months) interact was the highlight of the days. Even cleaning up with Jill on Sunday morning while everyone else slept was kinda fun.

We left Livingston Parish Sunday morning, and Cara left Monday afternoon after a nice meal with the whole fam at Walk-Ons. I headed back north that evening, and everything has been pretty normal since then. I'm looking forward to another quiet week. I.m making hot dogs and chili tonight for the Homerun Derby, since I have a meeting tomorrow for the All-Star game.

01 July 2009

Celebrating Father Joe and Aunt Lois


Greetings from Maison de Couvillion in Central City, Louisiana.

This past weekend at church we had a celebration for the 20th anniversary of the ordination to the priesthood of our pastor Father Joe Martina. The events started with a Mass Friday evening celebrated by Bishop Michael Duca. Father Joe's family was there, as well as several priests from the diocese. I was asked to read the first reading, and I hope I did a fair job. A reception followed at the school. The ladies of our church did a fantastic job of preparing really tasty food. Everyone enjoyed themselves, and we presented Father Joe with a new chasuble that we ordered from Belgium. It was really beautiful.

Saturday morning I was up early and I started getting clothes washed and things together for my trip to the Ranch in Pride. At about 10:00 am I headed to church to help move tables and chairs over to the Andries family property for a church picnic after 4 pm Mass. It was really hot work, but we had lots of help and got it done fairly quickly. I went home and rested before Mass. We had a good turnout for church, and there was a great crowd at the picnic. The Andries graciously prepared brisket and chicken and potatoes. The food was wonderful, the setting was wonderful, and the company was better than wonderful. Everyone, especially Father Joe, had a good time.

After the picnic I went over to Bailey and Mary's house and hung out there for a while. Bailey was upset that I never identify them by name when I go to their house. I hope she is happy now.

Sunday morning I helped return the tables to church, then I headed off to Lafayette. My mother's great aunt, Lois Arceneaux, had a 90th birthday party. Cara is in town from California for the week, so she and Mom and Dad and Jacob and JP were all there. We saw some great old pictures of her, my grandparents and great grandparents, and even a few of me and my family (above). There were a lot of people there to celebrate Aunt Lois, including her only remaining brother A. G. Domingue. At 93 he is still a character.

After the birthday party we all swung over to Breaux Bridge for dinner with the Couvillions. We had a good time talking and laughing and eating and watching all the kiddos. Then I made the long drive back to Many for my one-day work week.

Monday came and went without much excitement, except that I was tired all day from going to bed late and waking up early to walk. So I went to bed at about 8:30 pm, not long after the sun went down. I felt very refreshed when I woke up at 5 am, and I was on the road to vacation at the folks house and the camp on the Tickfaw by 8 am. I'll report on that adventure next time.

27 June 2009

A Great Sports Week



This a picture of Morgan and Colin and Tippe playing in the water with Dan on Father's Day. More on that later.

Usually, good sports weeks occur in the fall, during football season. But this week featured a diversity of sports, mostly off the radar for a lot of folks, with thrilling contests and great results.

It started with U.S. Open golf. The rain delayed the tournament, so it finished on Monday. The golf was interesting all weekend, but the final round had great drama, several golfers in contention, and quality golf. Lucas Glover, the champion, is as humble a golfer as I've seen in a while, and I hope he's able to parlay his win in a major into big success.

Meanwhile, in South Africa, the United States is playing soccer in the Confederations Cup. (You don't have to like it -- I do.) Last week the U.S. lost two matches to Italy and Brazil, and looked pretty pathetic in doing so. But Sunday they came up with a 3-0 win over Egypt. This exact result, combined with a 3-0 Brazil win over Italy, is what the U.S. needed to get into the semifinals. But the opponent was Spain, the number one side in the world. On Wednesday, though, the U.S. beat Spain 2-0. It was a spectacular match, and maybe the U.S. can do better Sunday against Brazil in the final than they did in the group round.

But by far the most important sports story was the LSU victory in the College World Series. It started on Friday night, when, thanks to a rain delay, I got to watch the end of the victory over Arkansas with Clay. It was a blowout. LSU came back in the ninth to win in the first game of the best-of-three championship series on Monday, and Cara and I were IM'ing all the way through. It was a very intense game. The Tigers were flat on Tuesday, and the result was a 5-1 Texas victory, setting up a winner-take-all Wednesday showdown. I went over to play cards at Wayne and Tina's. When the game was 4-4 in the sixth, I pushed all in, because I could no longer concentrate on both the cards and the baseball game. I went outside to watch the game right about the same time LSU blew the game open with a big sixth inning. The final score was 11-4, and another championship for LSU.

In other news, I spent Father's Day weekend with Matt Parrish and his family. (I'm headed to see my dad next week when Cara is in town from California.) On Saturday Matt and Carrie and I drove down to Alexandria to have dinner with Ben and Jennifer and their boys. We had a great time catching up and hanging out together out for the first time in a while. When we got back to Natchitoches, we picked up Lindsey, Matt's sister, and went out to have a beer. We met Matt's brother Andy and his girlfriend Ellie at the bar. It was a fun evening.

Tippe and I went back to Natchitoches Sunday for a shrimp boil with the whole Parrish clan. We had a blast. I am grateful that they included me in their celebration, and that they have been so kind to me for so long. It's hard to believe that I have now known the Parrishes for at least 17 years, and I have come to love the like my own family.

The last thing I have to add is a bit of culture. I went to a performance of Clue at Northwestern State on Thursday evening with Larry, Kayla, Linda, Julianne, Joe and Carole. It was a musical dinner theatre murder mystery based on the board game. The play was fun, though the ending was a little nonsensical. My favorite part was the interaction with the actors during the breaks. Professor Plum even thanked me for being a good audience member.

19 June 2009

Happy and Sad and Regular



I've had a pretty good week this week. Of course, it's been a while since I had a bad week. Lucky me.

Sunday after church I was determined not to sit at the house all afternoon. I twisted Rob's arm, and convinced him we should go spend a couple of hours on the lake. And we did. We caught a few little fish, but mostly we just enjoyed the sun and the water and the quiet. The most impressive part was that we got the boat in and out of the water without any hassle, even though I was backing the trailer up into the water. On the way home we both decided that we are excited about the float trip in the fall.

Work was work Monday, but I did catch a little of the US-Italy soccer match. Our boys looked good in the first half and even went ahead one-nil. In the second half, being a man down caught up with them, and they lost. After work, I threw together a meal with a huge zucchini I got from Chuck and Linda. Robert came over to eat my casserole concoction and watch the LSU-Arkansas CWS game. The food was OK, the ballgame was a complete success. Chuck also came by, and we chatted about the float trip and how much fun we were gonna have.

On Tuesday evening the sad part of the week hit me. Robert's dog has not been well for some time, and when he got home Tuesday she could not stand up on her hind legs. He has been struggling with the decision of whether to continue to treat her or put her down, and decided that now was the time to let her go. She was obviously uncomfortable, she had lived a long life, and it made no sense to prolong her agony. I happened to get to Dr. Boudreaux's house just as they were making a final decision, so I sent Rob and Crystal home in my truck and helped the Doc do the deal before bringing Belle home and helping lay her to rest. As an aside, the ground is really hard in Many right now because it hasn't rained in a couple of weeks, so digging a hole in the dark was not easy.

I got to go play cards Wednesday and had a great time with the gang -- Wayne and Tina, Sammy, Tammy, Deb and Dave, Ruth and Tim. It was cool because the people I like were there, and the ones that aggravate me were not. I also won a little money.

Yesterday was normal and uneventful, except that it was Ernest Rodrigues's birthday (72 or 73, depending on who you ask) and I went over to sing Happy Birthday and eat cake. I hadn't seen Ms. Shirley in a while, as her health has made her a bit of a recluse, but she looks good and I was happy to see her. We had a fine time until Larry decided to shoot a gun, and it scared the fire out of Tippe. She literally tucked tail and ran to a safe place behind Kayla's chair on the porch. I laughed at her.

Now it's Friday morning, I went walking with Rob at 5:08 am for the fourth time this week, and I am going to be alone at work today. Good thing, because I won't disturb anyone when I am watching the LSU game this afternoon. Fluffy is up in the yard to cheer for the Baseball Bayou Bengals -- Geaux Tigers.

13 June 2009

Catching Up

OK, so I meant to post more regularly when I came home from vacation, but I have failed. The last two weeks have been eventful.

Last Wednesday night, three young men were killed in a one-car accident in Many. The whole town was in shock. They were drinking and going too fast, the road was wet and narrow and winding and dark. One of the guys, Wesley Eaves, was a member of my church, and I actually taught him in catechism a few years ago. I went to the funeral Saturday morning. The church was packed -- the pews, choir loft and aisles were full, and some folks had to stay outside. The saddest part for me was watching Wesley's younger brother and sister. It tears your heart out. Wes was a great kid, and he and his friends made a series of stupid decisions with tragic consequences. Please keep Wesley, Cody, and Brandon and their families in your prayers.

Last Friday I went out to the lake with Buck, on Saturday I went to Bob and Carolyn's for a fish fry, and on Sunday we had steaks at Chuck's. It was good to catch up with good friends, some of whom I had not seen in a while.

This week I was in meeting hell. Father Joe asked me to represent the church at a meeting for the 2010 census on Tuesday. It was an hour and a half meeting that should have lasted about thirty minutes. I got to visit with Tanya Ford, so it wasn't a total loss. The monthly Knights of Columbus meeting was Tuesday night, which was pretty uneventful. We had elections, but everyone decided to keep their old jobs, so all I have to do is continue to keep the minutes of the meetings.

I had my first Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors meeting on Wednesday. I also became a member of the Chamber of Commerce on Wednesday. So, I really was not up to speed, and someone suggested an orientation session for the five new members, which we agreed was a good plan. I was surprised to find that there is tension amongst some of the folks, but given the strong wills involved, I guess I should not have been. Later that night I went to a Ducks Unlimited cooking, which was less meeting and more farewell party for Steven VanSickle. That was fun, and I met a few new people.

I went to Hannah's last softball game of the season on Thursday night, which they lost to league champion and chief rival Florien. On Friday night, I went to Randy and Mary's for the first time in a month. Randy made some manicotti that was really good. It was nice to hang out with them again.

Now it is Saturday, and I have no plans except to watch LSU in the CWS this evening. I'm ready to go do something, I just don't know what that something is yet. I'll let you know.

Finally, I am proud to say I got up at 5 am and walked with Robert at least seven out of the last ten weekdays. I'm starting to get used to being on a seventy-year-old farmer's schedule.

01 June 2009

VACATION



I've been on vacation for the last week. Before I left Many, I went to dinner last Friday at Archie and Regina's. I was driving down the road and got invited to eat dinner, so I did. I had a great time visiting with them and Archie's sister, and the food was outstanding. On Saturday I spent the day washing clothes and cleaning the house in anticipation for being away for a week. I hadn't been to Pride since the beginning of March, and I was ready to get out of Many for a little while. After Mass Saturday I went over to Bob's and had steak with he and Ted. Their wives were out of town on a girls' trip, and we just hung out. Sunday morning I woke up and packed. After Robert got out of church we went and put the barge in the water so he could get the trailer fixed. We finished all that by about noon, and Tippe and I got on the road heading south.

Our first stop was Jacob's house in Galvez. Once we got there, I couldn't wait any longer to get JP's tractor set up so he would be able to ride it. Mom and Dad and I headed back to Pride with Little Boy in tow so that Charmin could get some work done around the house. We had a fun evening. On Memorial Day, Mom and I went to run some errands with JP. We ended up at the mall to meet Dad for lunch. After hanging out at the playground, JP went racing down the concourse in whichever direction he decided. As I followed, he darted across the way, right up to a store window exclaiming "Thomas!" Stride Rite had put up a display of Thomas the Tank Engine merchandise, including boots, a raincoat, and an umbrella. Of course, our next stop was finding the Stride Rite store. He found the boots in the store and quickly asked his Maw-Maw to take off his sandals. He spent the remainder of the next two days in the Thomas boots. He likes him some Thomas. That evening we went out to Jacob's again. This time the tractor was charged up and ready to go, and he got to ride it. It took him no time to fill the trailer with footballs and Disney characters. He's got some work to do to learn to steer better, but he picked up the basics quickly.

Tuesday morning Robert called for me to go pick up some stuff at Tony's Seafood and deliver to Brian, who was on the other side of town moving Sara out of her house. I did, and then went to the bookstore at Perkins Rowe to pick up The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein, which Bob had recommended. I then went to the movie theater and watched Angels and Demons. It was a bad adaptation of a decent novel. After the movie I drove back to Pride for some rest.

Wednesday I was tasked with cooking dinner, so I decided to make tacos. I went to the grocery in the morning for supplies. When I got home I prepared for the UEFA Champion's League Final between Barcelona and Manchester United, by which I mean I sat on the recliner and turned on the TV. Barca won, and I fell asleep in the second half. I cooked dinner, which was well-received.

Thursday I headed out to Galvez and picked up Brandon and his friend Eric for a trip to the movies. We got there early, so we went to the mall and ate Cane's and walked around a bit. Twelve year olds have the capacity to be more than a little annoying. They were never badly behaved, just annoying. We watched Night at the Museum 2, which I didn't think was as good as the first movie. It took too long to set up the story, and the climax was rushed and predictable. We had a good time anyway. I dropped the boys off and then headed back to Pride for dinner at Bobby and Kate's house. We had a great visit on the porch, and the shrimp and pasta Ms. Kate fixed was very good.

Friday I thought I might wake up and head to Many for the Chamber of Commerce banquet, but I got invited to the LSU-Southern baseball game. So I met Nanny and Uncle Be and we went to campus. The weather was beautiful, the game was close for six and a half innings, and the park was pretty neat. LSU won, and we went to the Pasttime Lounge for beer and poboys. I enjoyed spending the afternoon with them. I went to Galvez after that to watch JP while Jacob got some work done around the yard. We hung out and had a good time.

I also watched him Saturday morning while Jacob went to the store. We quickly decided to go play outside in the yard in the pool. We spent most of the day out there, in the pool and on the tractor and on the trampoline. Dr. Dan showed up in the afternoon, and Mom and Dad came over later in the evening. We had a very nice day, and it was a great way to celebrate JP's second birthday.

Sunday morning we woke up early and Mom and Dad and I went to Mass at St. Mark's in Gonzales. The music was very contemporary, and not to my liking, but the homily was good, and not too long. When we got back to the house, it was crazy time. Charmin and Jacob were running to and fro trying to get ready for the party. My job was mostly to stay out of the way, but Dan and I did set up the water slide for the kids. There were at least 75 folks at this bash. After all day in the sun Saturday and two nights on the couch, I decided I would sneak out early, before cake and presents. I figure that Cara and I already got him the coolest present, so I didn't need to see the also-rans. Plus, all those people and children were more than my senses could stand anymore. I got home and unloaded the car. Mom and Dad weren't far behind. We got all the work we had to do done before the LSU baseball game at 6. The Tigers won and advanced to the Super Regionals.

It is now noon on Monday, and I am going to pack up for the trip to Many. I am ready to be home!

21 May 2009

From One End of I-49 to the Other

My weeks seem to be getting busier and busier. Last Tuesday night I cooked chicken and rice and gravy for Kayla and Larry. It was good, but mine is never as good as mom's. On Wednesday we got a lot of work done at work, and very nearly finished everything we could finish. We'll have some things to tie up over the next two weeks, but it's nice to be completely caught up. I went over to Wayne and Tina's to play cards and watch the results of Idol Wednesday night. I didn't win anything, but I had a fine time with good people.

Thursday night I went to watch Hannah play ball. I got spoiled last summer watching the girls play in the world series against the creme de la creme, because when they play a regular league game against weaker competition, it is pretty dadgum boring. They won, though. Afterward, I went to Rob and Crys's for the season finale of The Office. Very funny, that show.

Friday morning I got up at five in the morning and went walking with Robert. That is very early. That evening, I had dinner at Bob and Carolyn's. The drunk chicken and rice were really good, but the new squash, picked out of the garden that morning, was the highlight of the meal.

On Saturday I went to Shreveport to celebrate the Mass of Ordination of Matthew Tyler Long. Father Matthew, who we called Tyler in law school, converted while he was in Baton Rouge, and three years later he was in the seminary studying for the priesthood. The Mass was beautiful and emotional and a grand celebration of Father Matthew's new role for our diocese. I also got to see two other former law school classmates, Brandon and Donnie. When I got home Saturday afternoon, I headed to Mary and Randy's for a crawfish boil. When I arrived, there were several people I didn't know. A few beers and some shared crawfish later, I had some new friends. I also got to alternately pick on and discuss religion with a less-than-fully-sober person. It was a nice afternoon and evening.

After Mass Sunday, I packed my bags and headed to Breaux Bridge for Emily's graduation party. I was a little late, but there was still some food left when I got there. I am very proud of Emily for following through on her education after some time away. That's certainly not the easy route, but she managed to be successful. Emily has some pretty incredible things going on in her life [i.e., Nick] and I am happy for her and hopeful that this next year, which promises lots of changes and experiences for her, will be a great triumph. I spent the night down south, so after everyone left we continued to discuss the things people discuss these days, primarily the policies of the Obama administration and their lack of intelligence, until Travis and I ran out of beer. He and I continued the talk over beers at a local tavern, but soon the discussion turned to horse racing and cockfighting. Much more interesting topics, in my opinion.

Monday morning I did a little shopping in Lafayette and Alexandria before returning to Many. Most importantly, I secured a birthday gift for JP, who turns two next weekend. Tuesday I went to Kayla's for Idol, and last night we watched the final results show. The guy I voted since the top thirteen won, so I was pleased, and the show was very entertaining.

This morning marked the third day in a row I have gotten up at 5 am to walk. I'm not sure how long I will continue this, but Tippe sure likes it.

12 May 2009

Home-Cooked Meals

I had a really good streak of eating really good food this week. And I helped! Tuesday was AI at Kayla and Larry's. It was also Cinco de Mayo. So I cooked fajitas. I did it differently than I have in the past, but they were really good. On Wednesday, I cooked dinner for Robert and Crystal, and we had spaghetti and meat sauce. On Thursday, I went to play cards at Wayne and Tina's. Wayne cooked some excellent red beans and rice, and the cornbread was out of this world. Another plus -- I didn't lose any money.

Sara's graduation party was Saturday. Her folks threw her a very nice party, which included 100 pounds of boiled shrimp, cheesecake flown in from New York, and all the beer you could drink. I gave Sara a nice portfolio/notepad holder, and included a short note with some advice now that she's a lawyer. I hope she liked it, or at least laughed a couple of times when she read it. Brian asked me to say grace before we ate, which I was happy to do. I ended the night by jumping into the pool. Ronnie said he was going in, I told him I'd follow him, and in he went. I had the good sense to empty my pockets. I take this as proof that I wasn't too drunk.

Saturday was more low-key. After Mass, I spent the evening hanging out with Buck. Sunday I went out on the lake with the Hables and the Murphys for Mothers Day. We had a very relaxing afternoon.

04 May 2009

A Very Meaningful Message

In light of the controversy surrounding the invitation Notre Dame extended to President Obama, and its decision to bestow an honorary doctorate to a man who has done so much to promote abortion in his first 100 days as president, I thought this sermon was an appropriate response. It was given by the Most Rev. Wenski, Bishop of Orlando, at a Mass of Reparation. While it was in response to this scandal perpetrated by Notre Dame, it has an important message to all men and women of faith about how we should strive to be images of Christ in the world.

Mother Nature Provides a Wake Up Call


I was up bright and early (i.e., 4 am) Sunday morning. Bock wanted me to be at Toledo Tackle at 5 am so we could get out on the water early. We were on the lake by about 5:45 am and headed to Lanan bridge to try our luck with the white perch. We weren't very successful, but we caught a few fish. I learned a thing or two, and visiting with Bock was enjoyable. The guys we went with, Skip (Bock's host) and Charlie, were more successful. We couldn't see them, but Charlie's dachsund Peanut hates fish, and barked madly every time they landed a fish. Pretty funny.

We tried a few more fishing holes, none with great success, and I headed back to town at about 2 pm to get to Mass, where I served as a Lector. When I finally got home I sat down for a big salad. My meal was interrupted when I saw Kayla walking. Tippe and I joined her. During our walk, I mentioned that I was probably going to rent a movie. She suggested Marley and Me. I agreed it was a good idea, and I borrowed the movie and headed over to watch it with Kayla and Larry. Even though we knew how the movie ended, the tears were copious. If you ever need a good cry and have lost a beloved pet (like Canoe, Tippe's sister who died in the fall), it's definitely the movie to watch.

Sunday morning, I awoke to the sounds of a vicious storm at 7:30 am. Many was hit pretty hard by a storm, including what looked like a tornado. Three trees fell in the cemetery across the street. A limb fell and but a dent in the hood of my truck. But I was lucky. Several houses in my neighborhood, including three of people I know, ended up with trees on them. It'll take a while to recover, but we'll do it.

I finally headed out to the covered dish at church to celebrate the First Communion of our youngsters. Some of the food was late, owing to power outages at the restaurants and grocery stores providing it, but it was still a nice celebration. I came home and cleaned up most of the limbs in the yard. Later, I had chicken and dumplings with the Hataways and the Boudreauxs. A fine end to a fine weekend.

Today, I finished a memo, worked on a couple of writs, and took care of some odds and ends, and I am ready for court on Wednesday. Tomorrow, since I finally have a few minutes and the court term is approaching the end, I'll tackle the mess on my desk. Tomorrow night, I'm cooking fajitas to celebrate Cinco de Mayo.

01 May 2009

What a Week

Man, what a busy week. I finally got to hang out at Kayla's for American Idol for my "regular" Tuesday night for the first time in three weeks. Kayla cooked an aweson dinner of beef tips, mashed potatoes, greens, fried green beans, and cornbread. Further proof that the show is just an excuse to get a great meal.

Wednesday, I went out to the lake to meet my uncle Bock and Aunt Linda, who were staying for the weekend. They brought up steaks from Poche's in Breaux Bridge, and it was an awesome meal. It was good to visit with them and meet their host Skipper Carlisle. After dinner we went fishing, and I caught a couple of nice bream.

Thursday after work I went and played cards. I got angry because one of the guys I played with got mad at me for something I shouldn't have done. I don't mind someone pointing out that I should not have done, but treating me like a six year old pissed me off. I still had a good time, but I need to work on (1) sticking up for myself and (2) not letting dickheads bother me. So at least I learned something about myself.

Friday we had a crawfish boil at church, which was very nice. It's 11:30 pm now, and I am going fishing at 5 am tomorrow. So I am off to a very fast night's sleep.

27 April 2009

Thank You and You're Welcome

Last Monday I returned home for lunch to find two thank you notes. A friend returned a hat that I had loaned her with a note on a paper towel thanking me for saving her from a bad hair night. The second was in the mail, from Adam Sullivan, who followed me around at work for a couple of days for a senior project, and it included an invitation to a reception later in the week. It reminded me that I need to send more thank you notes, because I have a lot to be grateful for.

On Tuesday night I went to our parish's Confirmation Mass. Bishop Michael Duca presided, and he gave a great homily about living your faith. He seems much more at ease about the formalities of being a bishop than he did in the fall when he first visited our parish. It was also very special to see kids I taught in CCD four years ago confirming their Catholic faith.

On Wednesday, I went to adoration, bought some life insurance, and then went to the reception at St. Mary's High School in Natchitoches. They gave the mentors a nice pen with the school's mascot on it. Then I hurried back to Many to play cards with some friends.

Thursday and Friday were quieter, which was nice after a long weekend with the family and a few pretty hectic evenings. Saturday morning followed the same pattern, as I rested up for another busy Saturday night.

After Mass Saturday, I headed out to the lake for Tammy's thirtieth birthday party. We danced and laughed and visited and ate some great food. I got home late, which made the 6 a.m. wake up pretty rough. But I had agreed to help the kids with the camp fundraiser at church on Sunday morning at 7 a.m. We had a good time, even though it was hard work. The kids pitched in and helped, and were pretty happy to do it, so it was a rewarding experience.

After a nap during the NASCAR race, I went for a walk with Linda and Kayla and Tippe and Rouxby. Chuck and Alicia returned from their fishing expedition with a nice mess of brim, so we arranged an impromptu fish fry. We had a blast visiting and hearing about Larry and Kayla's vacation to Tennessee last week. The guys and I stayed up for a while solving the world's problems. It was great to feel at home with my friends and neighbors. To feel welcome.

17 April 2009

Rainy Friday Night at the Lake

Just returned home from the Bass Unlimited Banquet at Cypress Bend Park with the parents and my brother Jacob and his wife. We had a good time, but it rained the whole time. As the night wore on, the wind kicked up, so it got cooler, and it was a little uncomfortable. Jacob was a pill, whining about being ready to go home and how cold he was. I had a good time. I saw lots of friends and introduced them to my family. Pat, our secretary at work, was very interested to introduce her friend Tammy to my dad. She gets a kick out of her (brief) conversations with Johnny on the phone when he calls to talk to me, and wanted to introduce her friend to him.

I didn't really drink enough, considering I didn't have to drive, but had a great time nonetheless. I am looking forward to trying to entertain my houseguests in the rain for the next two days. Spending tomorrow afternoon on the lake appears to be out of the question.

12 April 2009

Christ Is Risen! Alleluia!

For the first time that I can remember, I attended services on Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil. I've done two or three in one year, but this year, I made all three at my home church parish here in Many.

The Triduum is actually one three-day service. During the three days we do things that we only do once a year. It begins with a commemoration of the Last Supper on Thursday night. The priest washes the feet of twelve men as a remembrance of Christ's act of service. The tabernacle is emptied and the consecrated hosts are transferred to an altar of repose. The service ends with the stripping of the altar, and everyone leaves in silence.

On Friday, we gather in silence. It is the only day of the year that there is no Mass. Instead, we read John's account of the Passion of the Lord and venerate the cross. I also found it interesting that the intercessory prayers are common to every church in the world on this one day. We pray for the Pope, the clergy, the whole Church, other Christians, the Jewish people, those who do not believe in Christ, and those who do not believe in God. Finally, communion is distributed, and we again leave in silence.

On Saturday, the service begins after sunset. We begin outside with the lighting of the fire and the Easter candle. We process into the darkened church with tapers lit reminding us of the light we received at our baptism. The lights dramatically come on, and the deacon proclaims the Exsultet, announcing that Christ is Risen and singing praise to God. When the Gloria is sung (in the middle of the Liturgy of the Word, rather than before), the bells of the church are rung in great joy. After the Gospel reading, we renew our baptismal promises and receive new members into the church. We had five confirmandi last night, and one more young man who received his First Communion. In the midst of all this there is also incense and processions and beautiful flowers and vestments. The service lasts over two hours, but there is great joy in those two hours.

Now I'm off to prepare my contribution to Easter dinner.

11 April 2009

. . . . and Ended with a Broken Hub Assembly


On the way down to Breaux Bridge Sunday morning, I realized in Opelousas that I had forgotten my wallet in Many. Not a real big deal, since I didn't anticipate needing cash for anything. I'd just get a ten spot from the folks for the ride back to Many in case I needed something. I get to Breaux Bridge before anyone else. I helped Bock start setting up tables and moving equipment as people start showing up. Eventually Emily and her boyfriend Nick show up, followed by my folks, Granny, Nene and Maddie, Unlce Be and Nanny, Bart and his family, Travis and Kristen and Rylie, and Jacob and Charmin and Lisa and Brandon and JP and Brandon's pal Marcus. There were also other friends of Bock and Linda's who I hadn't met. A good crowd, good food, lively conversation, and lots of kids running around.

I laid off the beer, anticipating that I would be leaving pretty early to get to Many for the Seder meal at church. Then my buddy Ben called. He was on the way home to Duson from Navy Reserve drill in New Orleans and wanted to chat. He said he thought about dropping by to visit my folks in Pride. I explained that no one was there, but he was welcome to stop in Breaux Bridge and visit everyone. I looked at my watch and figured out that I wouldn't have a chance to visit with Ben for long if I was gonna make the Seder, so I called Kayla and told her to send my regrets. It's not all that often that I get to hang out with the extended family and good friends.

So Ben shows up, we all visit, eat some crawfish. Ben's wife, Jennifer, and their two boys were at the zoo, and they come by when Ben tells her of his whereabouts. The kids are riding around on the four-wheeler, and everybody gets a turn. JP, who is 22 months old, really like riding, and gets really upset when it is not his turn, crying "I wanna wide!" I told him to tough it out, but I don't think he understood. It was pretty funny.

Around 5:30, I decide I really need to get going. I say my goodbyes, and there are lots of them, and head out to the truck. As I am pulling out, I notice a clicking noise in the front end of my truck. I call Jacob over to see if he hears it, and the more I drive the worse it gets. It becomes apparent really quickly that I will not be driving my truck back to Many, or anywhere really. I was aggravated, more because now I needed my wallet and didn't have it than the fact that my truck was broken. But Bock assured me he would cover my expenses and I could pay him back and Mom used her AAA card to have my truck towed. I was staying in Breaux Bridge for the night. I called my boss, and she joked that she didn't believe that my vehicle was broke down: it sounded to her like I was at a crawfish boil out of town and got carried away. In my aggravated state, I told her that it didn't matter if she believed me, I wasn't gonna be at work Monday.

Emily asked if I wanted to join she and Nick and Travis at a bar. Hell yes. We ended up at a bar on the Atchafalaya Basin that had a bunch of houseboats hooked up to it. I got a chance to get to know Nick, who seems to be a really good guy. I also got to hang out with Travis, which I haven't done, really forever. I ended staying the night on Travis's couch. My truck was ready by 9:30 am Monday morning, and I was back at work at 1 pm. So the weekend was a little longer than usual, but it was most excellent.

07 April 2009

The Weekend Started Off Quiet . . . .


I had a very eventful weekend. It started Friday night. I was sitting on my driveway watching the cars go by and having a couple of beers. My friend Barrett drove by and said she was headed to Bob's to visit. I said I would head over there to hang out in a few minutes. When I started to leave, my truck wouldn't start. I had worn down the battery playing the radio. I called Robert to come jump me off. And away I went.

At Bob's, I visited with Barrett and Bob and Claire. Claire invited me to stay for dinner, and we had a great time. Kayla walked over from next door and suggested that she and I take her brother-in-law fishing the next morning. I readily agreed.

Kayla called the next morning at about 8 am, and I got up and got ready for the day. After prepping the tackle for our angling adventure, I took Tippe over to city hall so we could vote in the local elections (mayor and police chief). Then we picked up Kayla and Clayton, grabbed donuts for breakfast and bait, and headed to the Oeys. We spent about an hour and a half fishing. We each caught a catfish or two, and Kayla and I visited with Dr. Sien. It was a beautiful sunny day, though the wind was a little cool. We left so I could meet Robert at my house to clean up the barge for the Super Big Fun Couvillion Family Adventure the weekend after Easter.

Robert and I picked up the barge and then the supplies we needed to clean it. We spent about two hours scrubbing mildew off of seats, spraying down the boat cover and the canopy, blowing leaves, and entertaining Addi. When we finally gave in and let her help us, she did a pretty good job. We finished just in time to head to Rob's house to watch the NCAA Final Four games. I picked up some fried chicken, Rob got some beer, and we cheered on Michigan St. (successfully) and Villanova (unsuccessfully).

Sunday morning my alarm went off at 7 am. I jumped up and dressed for church, and got to St. Terence Mission out on the lake in time for 8 am Mass. It was Palm Sunday, so the Mass is a little long, but it was nice to see friends who attend the mission church and visit with them afterwards. I headed to Many to change clothes and get down to Breaux Bridge for a crawfish boil at Uncle Bock's. Little did I realize that my weekend was just getting interesting.

27 March 2009

That Old Time Smell


When I got home tonight, I couldn't wait to take a shower. I spent the evening at church helping to fry fish and hushpuppies and fries for a fundraiser for the kids to go to summer camp. We were in the garage at the rectory because of the rain, and there were eight pots of grease going to keep up with demand, so it was hot and stuffy. I really had fun hanging out with Jerry and Dickie and Bob, among others. I have known them all for a while, but it was great to learn more about them and just hang out while we worked. But after we finished cooking and cleaning up, I smelled like grease and smoke and sweat. It was kinda disgusting, but I was also nostalgic.

My dad bought a restaurant, Nooley's, in about 1985. It was a sandwich and burger shop. He owned it for about fifteen years, and I started working there in the summers after fourth grade. It was hard work, but I was lucky to have the experience of working there when I was home from high school and college, even though I sometimes hated having to do it. Anyway, today when I left the church I smelled like I had been working in Nooley's.

NOTE: The above image is actually of a restaurant that my Uncle Mike opened in Franklin, TN. But the logo is the same as the logo of my dad's place.

26 March 2009

A Pat on the Back

Last Tuesday, I read a couple of cases on the Louisiana Supreme Court's website. One was an appeal of a case that had come through our office. Long story short, my boss filed a dissenting opinion, and the supreme court, in reversing the decision of our court quoted extensively and approvingly from my boss's opinion. That was pretty exciting. The second supreme court pronouncement was an opinion saying that the constitutional provision requiring five-judge panels in the courts of appeal (a uniquely Louisiana procedure with an interesting historical purpose) does not apply to appeals from the Office of Workers' Compensation. That seemed interesting enough to tell my judge about, and she found it interesting as well.

Fast forward to this week, when my boss heads to her monthly meeting with the other judges of the court. During the meeting, she mentions the opinion regarding five-judge panels. None of the other judges had heard about, even though at this point it was a week old. She called to let me know she told the other judges that she had a fine research staff working for her. Good to know I am appreciated!

24 March 2009

Jail

Kim's 40th birthday party was a success. There was food and music and dancing and funny gifts. Denise met a bunch of my friends, and we had a good time.

Sunday we woke up and went to Mass. Denise headed back to Lafayette, and I fell asleep watching NASCAR. That meant I stayed up until 1:30 am Monday because I took such a good nap.

Monday was an early day. I was tasked with escorting the local boy scout troop to court and then to the local detention facility. So I went to court and jail yesterday. Luckily, I escaped.

21 March 2009

Come and Visit Me


I like having guests, for several reasons. One, I get my house in good order, which I don't always do when I am home alone. A byproduct of having the house clean for when company comes is that I don't have to get up Saturday morning and do housework.

Second, I get to do things that I don't always do when it's just me. Like go out to the lake and have a picnic, which Nene and I did for lunch.

But mostly, I get to enjoy the company of dear friends and family. This time it's my cuz Nene, who cam up from Lafayette. We had a late snack and shared a bottle of wine last night when she got in. This morning, we had a good breakfast followed by a leisurely stroll through town. Next was shopping for a gift and for groceries. Then out to the lake for ham sandwiches, chips, a cookie and some orange pop. Now it's basketball/nap time. Later tonight we head to a friend's party.

The weather is beautiful, the plumbing and A/C work, and the host is fairly pleasant. So bring yourself to Chez Couvillion in downtown Many for a fine weekend trip.

19 March 2009

A Day Off

Yesterday was my 34th birthday, and I had a great day. Nothing too exciting, just lots of friendly messages and a nice dinner with friends. I had a very busy weekend last weekend, with a birthday party, a Krewe party, Mass, a church pot luck dinner, a play, and a nice dinner at Mariner's in Natchitoches. I got enough work done the last three days at work to be able to take the day off today to watch basketball and do some work around the house. I have a guest this weekend!

My cousin Denise is coming north from Lafayette to spend the weekend. We're off to a party Saturday night, but otherwise we will have lots of time to hang out. In honor of her visit, I had the toilet in the guest bathroom fixed.

The main message today, though, is GEAUX TIGERS! Beat the Butler Thing-a-ma-poos.

08 March 2009

I Didn't Realize How Interesting My Week Was until I Wrote this Post

So I guess I'll be posting weekly. Or more. Or less. The week was pretty uneventful. I got some work done, and learned some law in the process. On Thursday I read an article by MSNBC's Jim Cramer and watched a video of Senator Tom Coburn and got pretty agitated about the state of our economy and the supposed solutions proposed by the powers-that-be. I haven't been that angry in a while at no one in particular. I have resolved to avoid such content in the future.

What sucked is that the week had been going pretty well. Monday a high school senior from St. Mary's in Natchitoches, Adam, spent the morning with me learning what I do. I also took him to visit other attorneys in town to learn about their jobs. It was a good time with a good kid who seemed genuinely interested. Dinner at Kayla's for AI Tuesday, adoration during the day on Wednesday, followed by a salad from Smokehouse, followed by pizza at Kayla's provided by Robert K., followed by another hour of adoration to fill in for Deacon Mike. Thursday, I woke up, cleaned the house so the appraiser didn't think I live in a pig sty, Adam came back and we went to court to watch civil court. Later in the morning, I met the appraiser at the house. All that while getting work done. Anyway, I decompressed Thursday night at Rob and Crys's, and got work finished Friday. Ready for court!

This weekend was great. Friday night I went to some a friend's house and hung out and ate BBQ shrimp. They talked me into avoiding yard work Saturday and going out to a shootout in the woods in Many. Basically, a bunch of guys get together and shoot skeet all day, and at night they eat marvelous food, drink beer and play cards. I skipped the shooting part and went straight to the card playing and beer drinking. I had a blast, didn't lose any money, and didn't get too drunk. I met a ton of folks, and heard a lot of stories.

Sunday, I woke up at 5:18 am CDT, had a cup of coffee, got online and found directions to Sacred Heart church in Pineville, and got a shower. I got on the road at 6:15 am. I finally got to Pineville a little later than I had hoped, got lost following the directions from the computer, and showed up a little late. Long story short, I got my 3d degree for the KC. It was a rewarding experience. I got back in Many at about 1:30 pm, just in time to go eat at the shootout. I played a couple hands of cards, then headed to the house. I got an hour of rest and got to visit with Buck, who was next door cleaning up the yard, before I headed to Mass in Zwolle at 5 pm. Fr. Williams and his 30 minute rambling homily was at least not boring, and he does celebrate a Mass in a very unique way. Not always good, but unique. Apparently Fr. Tim had surgery, so keep the good man in your prayers. Finally, Tippe and I went for a walk and visited with Ronnie, John and Susan, Kayla, Bob, Rouxby, John, Larry, Carolyn, Ted and Schottzie, DeDe, and Chuck and Linda. And it was beautiful evening.

01 March 2009

Wedding Fun

Christi and Reuben's wedding was last night. I believe I performed my usher duties admirably. After pictures and the ceremony and more pictures, we finally got to go to the party. The first half of the night there was a jazz trio playing. The second half there was a DJ spinning tunes. The funniest part was when the DJ played "Before He Cheats." Christi really got into that one.

Before the wedding festivities, I had a busy afternoon. I headed north to rural Jackson, La., where my friends Carrie and Kraig just built a new house. It was their daughter's first birthday party, but I was a little early for the party but I got to see the house and the kids. I hurried back to Pride, packed up my stuff and we headed to my uncle's house for fried shrimp and shrimp stew and the LSU-UK basketball game. I got to visit with Bock and Nanny and Emily and saw a bunch of the kids. Then Jacob showed up and we headed to the church.

26 February 2009

Lent Begins

Mardi Gras was busier than I originally thought. I went to lunch with Robert. Then I went out to the lake and visited with the Oeys for a while. As usual, they were gracious hosts and I enjoyed the view and the conversation. I came home and got ready for a meeting at church. The meeting was interesting and challenging. Immediately after, I headed to Many High to watch the last two innings of the Many-St. Mary baseball game. St. Mary won, but Many tried to make it a game at the end.

Ash Wednesday was a little less crazy. I went to 8 am Mass and Deacon Mike decided that my forehead was a great canvas for his ashes. Work was uneventful. I did go to Eucharistic Adoration for an hour instead of lunch. I am working on prayer for Lent, and this seemed like a chance to practice some discipline. I enjoyed the time. After work and a walk, I went to Kayla and Larry's for tuna sandwiches to break the fast. Idol was really bad.

Today was less interesting. I got a memo done at work. I got my hair cut. I walked with Kayla and Tippe. I went to Robert and Crystal's for an excellent dinner. I head south in the morning for Baton Rouge and a wedding. Pictures may follow.

23 February 2009

Early in Morning

I got some work done around the house Saturday before heading to Mass at 4 pm. I should have gotten to bed early, but I goofed off and ended up going to bed late. So 3:42 am was really early in the morning. The Knights of Columbus chicken dinner was calling.

It was cold and dark, but we got the chicken cooked and everything else setup. By the time 11 am rolled around, nobody had to wait for their lunch and nobody complained about the food. We had sold all the plates we made by 11:40 am. We had just enough dinners. Cleanup was pretty quick, and Tippe and I met Kayla and Carolyn to go walking before 12:30. After a walk on a brisk but beautiful day, I grabbed some lunch then curled up on the couch. Three hours later I awoke refreshed. I watched the NASCAR race in Cali (big winner: Matt Kenseth), the Academy awards (Slumdog Millionaire), and the BASSMaster Classic (Skeet Reese).

Now it's Monday morning and I am going to go to work for a day before a day off for Mardi Gras. Lent approacheth.

21 February 2009

Crawfish Friday

Yesterday at 6 pm I got invited to go out to Randy's to eat crawfish. Now, I'm not the biggest crawfish fan in the world, and it's a little early in the season, but I decided to head out there. I'm glad I did. The crawfish were as good as I've had in a while. Randy has quite the setup because he cooks crawfish every weekend. He's got huge commercial pots and burners on a trailer. Randy, Robert, and I sat around a fire, had a couple of beers, and talked about what's going on in the world and in town. I hope more Fridays are like yesterday.

18 February 2009

A Real Beaut of a Day

I feel much better today. The weather warmed up and the sun came out, so that helped. It won't last long, but I have enjoyed it. I also got the sign put up at church for the fundraiser Sunday. I had forgotten to do it last week, so I really needed to get it done. Next I have to wake up at 4 am Sunday. That'll be swell.

I made dinner for American Idol night at Kayla's. Chicken, caesar salad, alfredo and breadsticks. Yummy and quick. Idol was fun because the crappy people go home sooner. Plus, a friend of Kayla's is related to Michael Sarver, so we were all very excited that he got through to the finals. Everybody was in a fun mood, and we laughed a lot at dinner. That's a great evening.

16 February 2009

Sneeze Blow Cough

So much for a long weekend. I spent all day Saturday in bed with a head cold. Sunday was better. I went to church out at the lake and sold some chicken dinners. I went out and watched the Daytona 500 with some friends and some BBQ. It was fun, but I paid for it today. The cold moved into my chest, so I spent all day in bed again. Hopefully the Nyquil will make me all better for work tomorrow.

13 February 2009

Excellent Evening

I had a great night. I walked the dog after a dull day at work where I finished reading a record. I ended up at Kayla's house but they were already headed to Lafayette for the weekend. She called and I sang her the French Happy Birthday song, which I am sure I messed up in a few places. She didn't know any better. Bob got home and I had a drink (or three) with Bob and Carolyn. They were nice enough to feed me homemade eggrolls and meatpies, which were very good. After dinner and nice conversation, I started home.

On the way, I ran into Dr. Boudreaux, who invited me over for a beer. We caught up on our latest escapades and thoughts on the future of the country. Neither of us were very optimistic. They dropped me and Tippe off at home on their way to pick up their daughter from a dance in Florien.

Good food, good friends, good conversation. An excellent Friday night.

10 February 2009

Chatting with His Excellency Most Rev. Michael G. Duca

I went to a Diocesan Appeal meeting this evening at the church in Zwolle tonight. Bishop Duca was there, and it was a very nice gathering. But I may have come off as a wino.

A lady from church saw me with a glass of wine and asked me to get her one. I did. She took two sips and said "Ooooh, this is strong." She did not want to drink it, so she handed the glass back to me. Just then, they asked us to move into the next room for a video and a few words from the bishop. I had nowhere to place my wine, so I walked into the room with two glasses of wine and found a corner. I was well hidden until the bishop came and stood right next to me. I was the guy standing next to the bishop with two glasses of wine. Excellent! And we were standing on a platform higher than most of the room, so everybody could see me if they looked at Bishop Duca. Sad thing is, I barely got through one glass, because I didn't like it too much.

I spoke to the bishop for a little while and he is a very nice man with a clear idea of what he wants for the diocese. I like him a lot. Another cool thing is that a classmate of mine from law school, Matthew Tyler Long, is featured prominently in the video for the appeal. He is now Deacon Matthew and will be ordained to the priesthood on May 16.

09 February 2009

Sabine Parish Mardi Gras 2009


I had a great weekend. After running a few errands, i.e., stocking up on beer and ice, we picked up Randy and headed out to Emerald Hills Friday night. A couple of the guys cooked some ribs, and we sat around and drank a few beers. We ended the night watching an educational video on HBO Late Night.

We woke up Saturday to a beautiful morning. Once Mom and Dad arrived from Pride, Robert, Dad, and I played golf with Ronny and Pam. The weather was sunny and warm and windy, the company was friendly and fun, and the golf was downright horrible, save for a couple of great shots. We had to stop after 14 holes because we had to get ready for the party, which is perfect because I am convinced a round of golf should be only 14 holes.

After a quick meal with the folks who had gathered at the cabin, I took a shower and put on my fancy clothes (above left). The ball was a blast. The Harmon Drew Group was outstanding. Anyone who didn't have a great time has only themselves to blame. The highlight was when Crystal (above center) was named the 2010 Queen. She was surprised, and a little angry. She'll get over it. After breakfast at midnight, we headed back to the cabin for a nightcap and to debrief. Robert (above right) fell asleep wearing his hairpiece.

Sunday the folks and I got up and headed to Mass in Many. I spent the rest of the day napping/resting. After a great dinner at Kayla and Larry's, I had a very good night's sleep before a low key day at work today.

On the menu tomorrow: Dinner with the His Excellency the Most Reverend Michael G. Duca in Zwolle.

06 February 2009

New Shoes


I worked hard Wednesday and rested Wednesday night by going over to Kayla and Larry's and watching Idol. We ate some of mom's gumbo that she sent back to Many with me, and it was very tasty.

Thursday I got a lot of work done, walked the dog, went to church for a KC thing, and then went outr to help with decorations for the Mardi Gras. The place looks good, after a lot of people did a ton of work.

Today I got busy as soon as I got to the office and finished all the projects that I had started. Monday I will start fresh with a new batch, but for now I am caught up. I got my haircut and got some new shoes to go with my costume for Saturday night. I am anxious to get out to Emerald Hills tonight and start partying.

On that note, expect radio silence until Sunday.

03 February 2009

Slogging through the Week

On Monday I worked hard to get a memo done. After lots of ruminating, I finally got my thoughts down on paper. I spent Monday night getting the hall ready for the big Sabine Parish Mardi Gras. As usual, we got work done in a very fun atmosphere. After over three hours, we made some real progress.

On Tuesday I woke up early to ride to court. I learned a lesson -- be wary of wading into old arguments between people. I'll try to keep that in mind. I then had a Knights of Columbus meeting to prepare for at 7 pm. I got everything done and then headed to the meeting. We are preparing for a big fundraiser on 22 February. The meeting was productive, and we have a good plan put together. I have more homework to do, and I hope to get it done in the next two days. I got home after 9 pm.

Tippe is starting to hate me because I have not walked her in several days. Hopefully I'll make time tomorrow.

01 February 2009

A Busy Sunday before a Busy Week

We had a great time last night. Cara was eloquent and humble and gracious. And she got a sweet statue of a wolf. I was proud.

I got up and played with JP this morning. That's always a good thing. Then the whole family went to Mass at St. Gerard. We had to leave a little early to get Cara to the airport, though. Once I got back to Pride I had to turn right back around and head north. I got home, unpacked the truck, and headed to a Super Bowl party. The company and the food was great, as expected. The game was good too. Everyone wondered why I didn't have anything to drink. I explained that I was still hungover from Friday night.

I'm finally home by myself, and happy to be here. I'm looking forward to a great night of sleep and a good, busy week.

31 January 2009

Spinning Room

I had to go lie down last night when the world started spinning. I might have one too many rum and Dr. Peppers. But I had fun with the family talking and laughing and playing Balderdash. A few people came by, including my cousin Emily, who we missed at Christmas because she was in Dubai. Mom's gumbo was, as usual, scrumptious.

After I recovered this morning, Jacob and I went out shopping. We got measured for tuxedos for a cousin's wedding next month. We went and ordered my sister's Hall of Fame gift. It is epic. We ate lunch at Cheesecake Bistro. I bought some shoes. We went to Man of Fashion to get me a shirt for next weekend, and while it was pricey, I quite like what I got. He and I had a great time together. Now everyone is putting their fancy clothes on for the big event tonight. I will have one less drink tonight.

29 January 2009

Stupid Dog

I went for my daily walk with Tippe this afternoon. It was cold (about 43 F). All was well until Tippe decided to go swimming in a ditch. Just jumped right in. When she dried off, she stank. I just finished bathing her inside, and then cleaning up the mess that we made. It took longer to clean up the mess than to clean the dog.

It's done now. I'm headed back to Baton Rouge this weekend. The powers-that-be have chosen to induct Cara into the Redemptorist High School Hall of Fame. She's made the trip back from California for the second time in a little over a month. I'm looking forward to spending the evening with her and the rest of the family. It will be interesting.

27 January 2009

Second Language

I got some more work done today, and I had two of my suggestions taken seriously by everyone, so it was a good day. Now I am trying to format a schedule for the Mardi Gras ball next weekend and I can't seem to get it right. I'll keep trying.

My friend from college, Federico Bevini, is Italian and lives in Milan. We reconnected on facebook, and he read a couple of posts here and asked if he could translate them and put them on his page. I said sure. So, if you're interested in seeing what my words look like translated into Italian, here you go.

26 January 2009

Eating New Things

Sunday was dull, so no post. The highlights -- Mass, lunch, napping, a walk.

Today I went to work, and worked on a variety of things. From crawfish to custody to car accidents to railroads. Days like this I remember why I like my job. And my brain got a really good workout.

Tonight my stomach got a good workout. Linda is back in town, and Chuck invited me to dinner. The main event was rainbow trout they caught in the White River. It was really very tasty. After dinner, Julianne, Chuck, and I ate a pomegranate. Very sweet, but tough to eat. Not bad once you get the hang of it, but still sticky. I highly recommend the experience. I hope to pick some up in Baton Rouge this weekend.

24 January 2009

Work Party

So today I hung around the house and did chores until I had to go to a Mardi Gras Ball meeting at 1300. Drank some beer, helped out with preparing decorations, and prepared the script for introductions of the Krewe of 2009. Queen Mary and Randy were great hosts, as usual, and I stayed longer than the work was happening. There was drinking and dancing and singing.

Today was one of those days weatherwise where the temperature was the highest at 0700. After that, it cooled off all day back to winter temps. Two days in the 70s were nice though.

23 January 2009

Visiting with Neighbors

I walked the dog this afternoon and ended up at Dr. Chuck's house. He and I figured out the economic problems and the cause thereof, but we don't know how to fix it. Basically, the problem is that there are no consequences for bad behavior in our society. Chuck and I are good at that kind of thing. Then I went to dinner at Kayla and Larry's, and visited with Kelli, who is in town from Lafayette. Larry and I watched the end of Bourne Supremacy.

22 January 2009

A Rant Against Ranting

So far, the new president has not changed my life in any meaningful way. He still has some people really angry. I don't get it. I understand why President Obama's election and inauguration is meaningful to people of color in a truly historic way. I do not blame anyone for being excited and deeply moved by the events of the last few days. I'm proud of the country for electing Barack Obama.

But I didn't vote for him because I disagree with a lot of his major policy initiatives. [Which is different from his politics -- he is a master politician, and of a different mold than Bill Clinton, who destroyed and denigrated anyone who got in his way.] For starters, and considering today is the anniversary of the Supreme Court's really poor decisions in Roe v. Wade and Doe v. Bolton, I believe that abortion is wrong. The issue is not choice, it's life. From a constitutional standpoint, I basically think that the constitution is made up of words, not "emanations" and "penumbras." The Supreme Court should have left the decision to regulate abortion where it belongs, with the individual states, rather than finding new substantive rights where they never existed.

The point is, I will support President Obama when I think he is right, and I will disagree when I think he is wrong. Odds are, I'll think he is wrong more often than not on policy, but elections matter, and my side lost. That's democracy, and demonizing the other side is not very sporting. That's why most of the public is not engaged, and part of the reason Barack Obama is president today. I just hope that "hope and change" really mean something. Pardon me, though, if I am skeptical.

20 January 2009

President Obama

Sounds odd to say it, even though we have been preparing for a few months. I like the pomp and circumstance involved in presidential inaugurations. I watched the actual swearing in, and I would bet money that next time Chief Justice Roberts has the words to the oath written on his hand. The speech sounded good, as usual, but there was little substance, as usual. Reading it, though, I got the impression that the new president was trying to oversell how bad the problems we face are in an attempt to begin lowering expectations. I did like the imagery of the new president escorting the former president to the helicopter and seeing him off.

I pray that President Obama [I just added that word to my dictionary] meets whatever challenges he faces with wisdom and good judgment. I disagree with many of his policies, but my side lost. I hope the Republicans in the Congress have the wherewithal to put forth concrete alternatives to the more liberal policies of the Democrats and that the Democrats understand that compromise does not mean caving in to their point of view.

In other important news, American Idol was pretty boring tonight.

19 January 2009

Many Happy Return

Woke up, goofed off, packed, drove to Many. I had a good weekend, but I am glad to be home.

18 January 2009

A Day of Rest

What a great day. I woke up and got to hang out with the nephew for a while. We went to Mass, and the nephew was not having anything to do with sitting still and being quiet, so I took him to the back of church and hung out. After Mass, Dad, JP and I went to Tony's for boudin balls and Krispy Kreme for donuts. Mmmm.

After dropping the nephew off with his parents, Dad and I headed to Lafayette to visit the Jenjamins. The boys were rambunctious as usual. They liked their Christmas presents. I helped my godson put together his new Lincoln Log fort, which he really thought was cool. Jen and Ben were fine hosts, and it was good to catch up with them and watch the Cards-Eagles game.

We headed back home, listening to the first half of the Steelers-Ravens game. We switched back and forth between each team's home broadcast, but soon decided that the Steelers guys were far more entertaining. We got home in time to watch the end of the game. Mom was home from work and had gotten some rest, so we chatted about football and other stuff. A nice way to end a nice day.

17 January 2009

I Am a Rock, New Orleans Is an Island

I got up early and went to New Orleans for the Bar Association meeting. It was BORING. The most heated exchange was about a policy that the house had voted on two years ago. Some folks wanted to revisit it. Ugh.

I had lunch with Dan, a friend who is a surgical resident at Oschner. He was headed to a boring meeting of his own at the Ritz Carlton downtown. We caught up on the last couple of months and our trips to opposite coasts to visit sisters for New Year's.

Next I headed to Prarieville to visit with Jacob and Charmin and to pick up JP. He fell asleep right before we left, so the drive was easy. Once we got home we ate dinner and now we're watching Kenny Chesney on TV in front of a warm fire. A nice ending to a pretty good day.

An observation about geography: I drove into New Orleans on I-55, and you drive over water for a good part of the way. I left on I-10 West, and the same is true. As for the other two routes into New Orleans, the Causeway travels over the middle of Lake Pontchatrain and I-10 East travels over a pretty good chunk of the Lake. This is by no means a new observation, but the point is, New Orleans is pretty much an island.

16 January 2009

Collecting Goat Feathers

I had a busy day, doing these that needed to be done, but never feeling like I accomplished anything. I got the oil changed and the tires rotated on my truck, got a new radio, and got a haircut. I woke up early to get some dishes done and bills paid before I left town. And I got some work done. I also packed and visited with Buck. And now I am in bed in Pride getting ready to sleep fast so I can wake up early and make a 9 am meeting in New Orleans.

The good news is that I get to hang out with the nephew tomorrow. Yippee!

15 January 2009

Frozen Hair

After spending four winters in Chicago, I swore I would never complain about the cold weather here in Louisiana. I have had to remind myself in the last couple of days that it's not that bad. My hair is not freezing to my ears, my nose is not constantly sore, I am not slipping on ice on the sidewalk. And if I start to complain, I realize that however cold it is here, the folks in the the Windy City, and all of the Midwest are really, really freezing their asses off.

My regular Thursday night gathering was canceled because it's Robert and Crystal's sixth wedding anniversary. I need to stay in anyway and get ready to go back to Pride right after work tomorrow anyway.

14 January 2009

Soup for Me

The soup was well received, but I thought it needed more salt. It's hard to convince myself to put enough salt to season a big pot of soup. It was good, though, and I will do it again.

Mom confirmed that she and Dad are coming up for the Sabine Parish Mardi Gras. The theme is blast from the past, and as a member of the crew I have to dress in a style that represents the 60s or 70s. Hopefully I can get some ideas this weekend. I don't want to do disco or peacenik -- I want to be original.

I got to hang out with Dr. Chuck today. Always a good thing. I also drank K's leftover wine, which may explain why I am rambling. BTW, I prefer Pinot Grigio over Chardonnay.

13 January 2009

Soup Weather

I forgot how busy my life is! After the weekend respite, in addition to work I have had to chaperone Open Play at the Methodist church on Monday night, a Knights of Columbus meeting tonight, and I have to cook dinner for Larry and Kayla tomorrow night. I am cooking vegetable beef soup and grilled cheese sandwiches. I had some time today, so I did the shopping and started on the soup tonight. That should make it taste better tomorrow, and the cold weather screams for soup. I just hope it's as good as when mom makes it.

Interesting grammar note: The spell check on this program says that chaperone should be spelled without the terminal e. I have always spelled it with the e at end. On dictionary.com, either spelling is appropriate.

12 January 2009

A Relaxing Day


Sunday was a lazy day, but it had the great benefit of being quite normal. I went to Mass and then lunch with Larry and Kayla. Then I came home and watched football. I did go through my old pictures to pull out photos of Canoe, my dog who was killed by a falling limb in my driveway on 9-9-08. I had pictures from as far back as 1996, so there were lots of memories. Now if only I took the time to organize them in some coherent way.

10 January 2009

Plankwalker


The last day I was in San Diego, before Cara dropped me off at the airport, we ate at a restaurant called C Level. We sat outside near Coronado Bay, and the view was great. Downtown San Diego, the bridge to Coronado, and the island were all visible. There were navy ships and Coast Guard cutters and sailboats. We split a chicken Caesar salad and a pulled pork sandwich. The salad was so big we thought they had accidentally brought us each one instead of a split. Cara didn't even take a bite of her sandwich, instead saving it for dinner, and I had to take some meat off of mine in order to eat it. Everything was great.

I also ordered a drink from the martini list -- I cannot remember the name, but it was pirate themed. It had Captain Morgan spiced rum (my favorite), muddled cucumbers and honeyed lemons. It was really good, and I am determined to duplicate it. I tried tonight, but I put too much lemon, so it was really sour. I also don't exactly know what a "honeyed lemon" is, so I just mixed lemon juice and honey, but that really didn't work. I also couldn't muddle a cucumber because I lack the proper equipment, so I just put it in a food processor. Lacking a shaker, I used an old mayonnaise jar to shake it. What I came up with was OK, but I'm determined to get it right.

09 January 2009

California Service

Today was uneventful, so I thought I would write something about my vacation to California. When we first arrived, Cara's friend Juel picked us up from the airport in San Diego and took us to Cara's truck in Escondido. We stopped and ate at a Mexican restaurant. The service was horrible. We were sitting in the bar, and it took forever for our waitress to bring us menus and get our drink order. When she finally did, we watched the bartender pour our drinks and put them on the bar, but the waitress passed by them twice before she brought them to us. We ordered dinner, and then we waited. We ran out of chips, and even though the waitress passed us by several times it was a busboy who asked us if we wanted some more. Our food was finally brought out by a manager, but Cara's food was cold. We eventually got the manager's attention (the waitress was MIA) and she brought some warm food. Meanwhile, our waitress had time to send text messages and cheerily greet her friend who came in and chat for a few minutes. I needed a drink. She finally pulled herself away from her company and I ordered another beer. The bartender pulled it pretty quickly, and then we watched the waitress pass by it three times before Juel got up to retrieve it for me. The bartender stopped her and brought it to the table. I asked the bartender if the waitress always performed her job so poorly, and the bartender claimed she was just really busy. That apparently got somebody's attention because there was a helper waitress there soon after. Too bad all we needed her for was to get the check.

I am usually a pretty generous tipper, but not so much for this meal. I did leave a five-point memo about why the tip was not higher. I know the job is difficult, but it ain't that hard either.